Jack-off video: Truly taming a wild Romanian: Free version

Originally published on July 26, 2008

I now know how to cure the pique and petulance of a vain and saturnine Romanian boy: Let him star in his own porn video.

Yesterday I told the household that I needed to work and that everyone had to leave for at least five hours. My intent had been to finally finish Ovi 2’s video and also to post, something I hadn’t done, I discovered checking the blog, in over 24 hours.

There was some grumbling but Ovi 1, the most independent of the bunch, left almost immediately. Arssi sulked. Marius is no distraction to me unless he wants to listen to Radio Favorit. Bryan had a couple boys in his room, which worried me, since they’re out of my control, but they proved no problem either.

Once the flat had emptied, Marius, lying in bed with the comforter as a bonnet around his head, asked me if I wanted to shoot his video. A second’s pause and I agreed. Ovi’s video could wait — I hate editing sound in iMovie — and I still didn’t feel up to writing what I needed to write.

Apart from our most uninhibited sex romps, shooting this video turned out to be the most fun Marius and I had ever had together. He was open, engaged, and clearly excited about it. And he was a natural, squeezing out pre-cum whenever he had some and flaunting his cock by pulling it down and letting it slap against his tummy — something that drives me wild.

He groaned, he moaned, he grunted, “yeah!” He fucked the bed and he even let me tape some close-ups of his ass. This had been a sticky point between us ever since I’d broached the subject of his doing a video. Masturbation, yes; butt shots, no. Still guarding his ass like a typical straight boy. (There’s a funny shot addressing this subject in the outtakes at the end of the video. Don’t miss it.)

As you will see, he allowed me to showcase his ass somewhat, just not his asshole. He adamantly refused to spread his cheeks. He has a nice hairy hole so it’s really a shame. Not to worry, though, after the shoot I worshiped it like it deserves to be worshiped.

Even after two cum shots, he still got hard just from my massaging and licking and kissing and sucking his hole. (I have been anxious lately that I tend to exaggerate how much time I spend on a particular activity so this time I timed it: 32 minutes spent rimming Marius’ hole. Confirmed.)

In fact, becoming a porn star just seemed to make him hornier. We had sex twice later in the evening, and, as I was posting in the early morning, I turned around to find him taping himself jacking off. (I’ll post it later. Haven’t even looked at it yet.) I gaped and gasped and asked him if I could watch and jack off too.

“What questions!” he came back. “Why not?”

Lying on the bed together later, curled up and spooning, I told him I’d never seen him so happy and relaxed.

“So all this time time it’s been about the video?” I asked him.

“I don’t know. Maybe,” he answered and smiled.

Our interactions throughout the day had been breezy and relaxed, he accepted affection and returned it freely. I should have done this sooner, I thought. Never underestimate the damage you can do to the vanity of a typical Romanian boy.

I’m quite proud of it. It’s almost exactly the sort of amateur porn I’d like to do for this blog, shaky camera work and all.

I don’t want to do fantasy scenarios or try to wedge my interests into some pre-existing gay porn format. I want to do erotic portraits in which the personality of the guy has some importance, as well as give a hint of the personal connection between him and me.

I want it to be hot but also natural and playful and utterly unalienated. I think I’ve succeeded with this masturbation video of Marius.

Ovi 2 may, in fact, be better-looking but I find Marius much sexier. I hope that, at least, comes through.